Tuesday, April 14, 2015

Pictures of Miscellaneous Events

The Bible Study that I led (and the babies that were born during the course of that year!)

Cards that the Church School made to send to shut-ins and church members who are ill

The Christmas Pageant

A group Church School lesson on prayer--we made our own prayer beads!

A Presbytery-wide youth retreat that my Episcopal youth participated in

A Youth Group trip to the Harvest Festival at a local farm

Youth activity--kids wrote kind, uplifting descriptors of another, who didn't see;
I sent pictures of the kids under their words later in the week so they could see what others had written about them.

Ministry Resources

Please click here to see some of the ministry resources I've created.

  • A powerpoint presentation for Annual Meeting
  • A Kids' Bulletin to help children follow along in worship
  • A flier advertising the informal evening worship service that I co-created
  • A flier advertising the intergenerational event to connect older congregants with teens and kids
  • A sample newsletter outlining the youth events in November 2013
  • A postcard advertising the Lenten meditation space that I initiated
  • Worship Jeopardy based on Episcopal worship

Youth Event: Photo Scavenger Hunt

Youth Group Photo Scavenger Hunt

Rules:

  1. Your entire team MUST be back at church by the specified time
  2. Teams must stay together at all times
  3. Adult chaperones do not count as a team member
  4. No pictures can be taken on church property
  5. NO DOUBLE DIPPING! You must have a separate photo for each category.
  6. No collaboration with other teams
  7. At least one team member must be in every photo (or more if specified)
  8. Be respectful of those around you and follow all laws!
  9. Decision as to whether a photo actually meets criteria will be decided as a group; Katey has final say.
  10. If multiple teams photograph the same object, neither team will get points. In other words, be creative!
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1 Point

  • Take a picture of a team member in the funniest hat you can find
  • Find a sign that indicates a historical location
  • Find something that costs less than $0.99; take a picture of your entire team touching it
  • Find a kiddie ride (the kind that cost a quarter or 50 cents) and take a picture of a team member on it (it doesn’t have to be on)
  • Find a store that sells deodorant and take a picture of your entire team pantomiming putting it on
  • Take a picture of your whole team jumping in the air at the same time
  • Have your whole team pose like a tree (or trees) underneath a tree
  • Take a picture of your whole team posing on or under a bridge
  • Find a house or building whose street number is “2014”
  • Have your whole team put on sunglasses and strike a “cool” pose 
  • Find something that begins with the letter Z
  • Find a sign (any sign) and do what it says—take a picture!
  • Take a picture of everyone in your team throwing a paper airplane at the same time
  • Take a picture of your whole team reflected in something other than a mirror

2 Points

  • Find a statue or mannequin and have your entire team strike that pose
  • Find a food item that has an unusual name (can be on a restaurant menu)
  • Find a car of the same make and model as the car you’re travelling in (+1 bonus point if you can get a picture of both cars in the same photo
  • Take a picture of your entire team sitting on a slide at the same time
  • Get a picture of your entire team with someone in uniform (+1 bonus point for military, police, or firefighter)
  • Find some graffiti (creating it is not allowed!) and pose next to it
  • Have your whole team form a human pyramid outside
  • Take a picture of your entire team having a dance party in a public place
  • Have all team members drink from the same soda with straws
  • Take a picture of all group members in a tree
  • Create an air marching band and march around a public place
  • Have everyone on your team drink/eat something to change the color of your tongues
  • Have a tea party with at least one stuffed animal (actual tea not necessary, but make sure you have cups and plates!)

3 Points

  • Take a picture of your team reenacting a Biblical story
  • Find something that could be a prop or costume from a Harry Potter movie. Act out a scene with it.
  • Get a stranger to make a silly face with your team 
  • Spell out “St. Thomas” with your hands or your body—one picture for each letter (you will need two “ts” and two “ss”). Every member of your team must be involved.
  • Find something or someone that is not scary at all and take a picture of your team pretending to run away from it in terror (+1 bonus points if it looks like it is chasing after you)
  • Find someone (not on your team) who is wearing a very similar outfit to someone on your team. Take a picture of the two outfits together.
  • Find someone playing a musical instrument; pantomime singing along passionately (whole team)
  • Get a picture with as many people in it as possible (points only awarded to team with the most people in the picture)
  • Take a picture of one group member arm wrestling a stranger

Instructed Liturgy

For use after the children leave worship after the children's sermon and before the adults' sermon; in this congregation, Communion is celebrated every week during the second half of worship. Liturgical resources are from the PCUSA Book of Common Worship and Feasting on the Word.
  • There are two parts to our worship service: The Liturgy of the Word and The Liturgy of the Table.
    • We just finished the Liturgy of the Word and will soon begin the Liturgy of the Table
  • Does anyone know why we call them this?
    • Liturgy means, “Work of the people”—we’re not just watching, we’re participating!
    • In the first part, we share, discuss, and celebrate the Word of God; in the second part, we gather at the Table for Communion
  • It might help our understanding if we think about the worship service as a family meal
    • When you get together at Thanksgiving or birthdays, do you just eat right away and then leave?
    • No! You spend time together; you’re celebrating something! It’s a special meal!
    • That’s what worship is like for us: we come together to celebrate God, so before we sit down to eat our special meal, we talk about God and the things that God has done for us.
  • Let’s walk through what we’ve already done:
    • Hymns: to help get us in the right frame of mind and also sometimes to help transition between parts of the service
  • What was the first thing that the Pastor did?
    • Called us to Worship
    • Saying, “Remember why we’re here. Let’s celebrate!”
  • Then the “Celebrant” (Remember, our family meal is a celebration!) says a prayer
    • Asking God to help us prepare our hearts and minds for worship
  • After another hymn we pray again!
    • This prayer is called a “Collect”
    • This is where we “collect” all our thoughts together so that we can listen really well to what God is going to tell us—usually talks about the worship theme
  • Then what? Scripture—OT, Psalm, NT, Gospel
    • Why do we read scripture? What’s special about it?
    • Many churches use what’s called a lectionary—a list of assigned readings—to make sure we don’t keep reading the same stuff every week
    • Why is it important to remember the past? Like talking about family stories around the dinner table!
  • Sometimes there is one reading, sometimes there are four readings, but the last one is ALWAYS the Gospel
    • What’s special about the Gospels?
  • After reading Scripture, someone (usually a priest or pastor) gives a sermon
    • What’s the point of the sermon?
      • Is scripture always easy to understand? Sermon helps to clarify what the priest thinks God is trying to tell us through the Bible. There’s a lot of confusing stuff in there, so sometimes the pastor has a lot to say!
  • That’s where we left, but who knows what comes next?
    • Recite the Nicene Creed—Let's read it together and see if we can figure out why we do that
    • [Recite the Nicene Creed together]
  • We’re responding to what we’ve learned by saying, “Yes, we’re on board with this—we believe!”
    • It was written over 1500 years ago and many different Christians use it, so it connects us to the many people who have come before us
  • Then we all join in to pray together—the deacon usually leads, but we don’t just listen; we participate!
    • Remember, prayer is talking to God—sometimes asking for things
    • I’ll say, “Let us pray for…” and then you can call out specific people or groups that you want to pray for from that category
      • All Christians everywhere
      • Our country
      • Our planet
      • Our community
      • People who are hurting or in trouble
      • People who have died
  • Then we say “The peace of the Lord be always with you”
    • And everyone responds, “…and also with you.”
  • What happens during the sharing of the peace? 
    • We’re sharing our happiness with each other and showing that we aren’t just a bunch of individual people, we’re a family because of God. If we're mad at anyone, we make up with them before we share our meal together
    • Go ahead and share the peace right now!
  • Everything up until now has been preparing ourselves for the meal!
    • Now we prepare the meal itself by setting the table
    • There are special dishes and cloths that we use because of how important communion is
      • Like if your family has special dishes for when company comes over
    • As I set the table, who can tell us why we celebrate communion, and why we do it in this way? (Because Jesus told us to; because this is how Jesus did it, etc.)
  • Once the table is ready, the pastor reminds again us why we’re here
    • Do you know the responses?
      • "The Lord be with you."
        • And also with you.
      • "Lift up your hearts."
        • We lift them to the Lord.
      • "Let us give thanks to the Lord our God."
        • It is right to give our thanks and praise.
  • Then, the pastor talks a lot
    • Do you remember what was important about the liturgy of the Word? Learning about God, remembering
    • Now we are remembering a very specific thing that God has done
  • The words are usually pretty fancy, but see if you can follow and recognize the different Bible Stories that I talk about:
"It is right, it is good, and it is joyful to give thanks to you, God of mystery and miracle.

"When there was only darkness, you made light. When we cried out to you from captivity, you claimed us as your own. When we forgot our love for you, you did not forget us, sending your prophets to turn us around and renewing your promises: with a bow in the sky, the parting of the sea, your own Son.

"And so we praise you, tuning our voices to the angels’ songs, joining all those who sing on earth and in heaven:"
  • When we hear all this awesome stuff God has done, we all want to join in and praise God. Repeat after me:
Holy, holy, holy Lord,
God of power and might,
Heaven and earth are full of your glory.
Hosanna in the highest.
Blessed is the One who comes in the name of the Lord.
Hosanna in the highest.
  • Then the pastor says thank you for all this cool stuff that God has done for us, and especially for this meal that lets us experience God:
"Thank you for Jesus—for his teaching and healing, his challenging and feeding, his living and dying and rising, that we might be raised with him, and all the world made new.

"We thank you that on the night before he died he took bread, gave thanks, and broke it, and shared it with his friends, saying, take, eat—my body broken for you.

"Thank you for the way he took the cup, the new covenant sealed in his blood, shed for the forgiveness of sins. Whenever you eat and drink, he said, do it in remembrance of me.

"With thanksgiving we take this bread and wine, gifts of the good earth, offering ourselves as a living sacrifice dedicated to your service.

"Great is the mystery of faith:"
  • Then, all together, we declare why we’re celebrating; repeat after me:
Christ has died,
Christ is risen,
Christ will come again.

  • Then we ask for God to come be with us and make this meal special—not just a meal that feeds our bodies, but one that feeds our spirits and connects us to all Christians everywhere who are also sharing this meal—and also to help us be strong enough to do God’s work in the world:
"Gracious God, pour out your Holy Spirit upon us and upon these your gifts of bread and wine, that the bread we break and the cup we bless may be the communion of the body and blood of Christ.

"By your Spirit make us one with Christ, that we may be one with all who share this feast, united in ministry in every place. As this bread is Christ’s body for us, send us out to be the body of Christ in the world.

"In union with your church in heaven and on earth, we pray, O God, that you will fulfill your eternal purpose in us and in all the world.

"Keep us faithful in your service until Christ comes in final victory, and we shall feast with all your saints in the joy of your eternal realm.

"Through Christ, with Christ, in Christ, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, all glory and honor are yours almighty Father,

"Now and Forever. Amen."
  • Now we pray the Lord’s Prayer together, which is a special prayer that Jesus taught us and that all Christians know because it’s in the Bible.
    • Our Father, who art in heaven…
  • Then the pastor breaks the bread, just like Jesus did, so that it’s ready to be eaten.
    • And then, the meal is ready, so the pastor invites everyone to the table, saying:
"The gifts of God for the people of God."
  • When you eat the bread and drink the wine, the person serving you will say, “The body of Christ; the bread of heaven,” and “The blood of Christ; cup of salvation.” During the Last Supper, Jesus told his disciples that the bread and wine were his body and blood. Different Christians have different ideas about what this means exactly—some believe that the bread and wine actually become Christ’s body and blood, some believe that it’s a symbol, and others believe that it’s something in between—but all agree that when he said that, Jesus was telling us that he would actually be with us whenever we share Communion.
    • Now you can come forward to share this meal.
  • [After Communion] What do you do when someone has given you something or done something for you?
    • We end our communion meal by saying thank you to God with a special prayer for feeding us in this special way [Prayer]
  • Then we’re ready to go out into the world, so the pastor says a blessing, which is a reminder that God loves us and is always with us, and the pastor or deacon gives us instructions about how we should act once we leave:
"Be strong and courageous; do not be frightened or dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go. May the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ who blessed the children, the love of God who made each child in God’s own image, and the communion of the Holy Spirit whom Jesus called the Advocate, be with you and every child of God this day and ever more.

"Go in peace to love and serve the Lord! Thanks be to God!"

Sermon: The Hunchback of Notre Dame, Luke 6:37-45 (July 27, 2014)

As potential Disney movies go, Victor Hugo’s novel, Notre-Dame de Paris, known in English as The Hunchback of Notre Dame, is not generally the first work that comes to mind. I read the book back in Middle School, and the one thing that I remember about it is how gloomy, violent, and depressing it was. But, for whatever reason, someone working for the Mouse decided in 1996 that this novel was going to be the inspiration for the next big children’s blockbuster. Disney took dramatic creative license in the retelling of Hugo’s work, toning down most of the darker themes and giving the story a classically “Disney” ending in lieu of the “everybody dies” technique preferred by Hugo.

If you’re having a hard time recalling this movie, you’re not alone. Hunchback was commercially disappointing, and short-lived in popular culture. As a member of Disney’s target audience at that time (I was 10) I don’t remember being terribly impressed. But then, perhaps this is a fitting legacy for a movie about outcasts.

Disney’s Hunchback of Notre Dame is primarily about Quasimodo, the deformed bell-ringer referenced in the title. In his infancy, Quasimodo’s gypsy mother was killed by the city’s judge, Claude Frollo, a man who, according to narration, “longed to purge the world of vice and sin/And he saw corruption everywhere except within.” However, when the archdeacon of Notre Dame confronts Frollo about the murder, he begrudgingly agrees to raise the child as a ward, on the condition that the hunchback remain locked away in the cathedral.

Fast forward twenty years; Quasimodo spends his days cloistered in the bell tower, since Frollo has told him repeatedly that his deformity is “a crime for which the world shows little pity.” Nevertheless, Quasimodo dreams of living in the heart of Paris among its people, especially once he meets the beautiful gypsy Esmeralda on an illicit excursion outside of the cathedral.

As the movie progresses, a love quadrilateral begins to form. The timid Quasimodo falls in love with Esmeralda, the pious Frollo battles with his feelings of lust for her, and Esmeralda herself develops a relationship with the heroic Phoebus, the former captain of Frollo’s army who rebels upon discovering the judge’s questionable morals. Ultimately, Frollo’s lust overtakes him, and he comes to believe that he must destroy Esmeralda to save himself from her “witchcraft.” Following Quasimodo to the gypsys’ camp, Frollo arrests everyone he finds there and burns Esmeralda at the stake. However, Quasimodo and Phoebus are able to work together to rescue Esmeralda and free the gypsies. In true Disney fashion, Frollo dies in the scuffle, although not at the hands of any of our heroes, the attractive couple winds up together, and Quasimodo is ultimately accepted in society.

As I mentioned previously, The Hunchback of Notre Dame is, at its core, a film about outcasts. This theme is emphasized when Esmeralda sings a prayer in the cathedral, pleading, “God Help the Outcasts, or nobody will.” It’s pretty clear who the outcasts are meant to be in this story, but for the sake of argument, let’s make sure we’re on the same page. Merriam-Webster defines an outcast as “someone who is not accepted by other people.” Simple as that. Jesus had a lot to say about these types of people, first and foremost, of course, that we must love and care for them.

But instead of telling you what you already know about the proper attitude towards outcasts, I want to take a minute to talk about good guys and bad guys. Bear with me. As children, the good guy/bad guy dichotomy is one of the first elements of storytelling that we learn, and Disney movies unabashedly capitalize on this. The idea of a typical good guy or bad guy is so well established that most of us will use essentially the same characteristics to describe a hero or to describe a villain. Take a moment to recall what a stock hero or a stock villain is like. Heroes are the people who care of the outcasts, and sometimes are outcasts themselves—a special breed of hero that we call “underdogs.” Villains, on the other hand, are generally the ones doing the outcasting, excluding certain people or groups of people for their own nefarious purposes. We are well-trained to boo and hiss when they appear on screen. And we definitely know enough to pick them out when we see a bad guy in real life.

But here is where I think Hunchback takes us a little deeper than other Disney movies. These characters don’t fit as neatly into our standard “good guy/bad guy” categories as we might expect them to. The heroes are far from cookie-cutter Disney princes and princesses. True, Phoebus is more or less what we might expect: handsome, strong, clever, kind-hearted—in general, a credit to society. However, Esmeralda—who is a hero in her own right, despite needing to be saved on occasion—is less conventional. She’s beautiful, good, emotionally strong, and every bit as clever as Phoebus, but as a gypsy and a woman, she is disenfranchised—an outcast herself—and therefore overlooked by many. Quasimodo, of course, is the least traditionally “heroic” of the cast. Unattractive by almost all standards, shy, timid, perhaps even cowardly at times, his good heart is about the only thing that alerts us to the fact that he is a hero and not merely an object of pity—that, and the fact that the movie title is about him.

However, in spite of the unconventional heroes in Hunchback, I am most fascinated by the character of Claude Frollo. While he is clearly set up to be the antagonist of the movie, he’s unlike the other Disney villains that we’ve encountered during this sermon series. He’s not a power-hungry schemer like Scar, or an evil sorcerer like Jafar, or a greedy politician like Ratcliffe. In fact, he is a spiritual leader—a pious judge in the movie, but an archdeacon in Victor Hugo’s original novel—a pillar of the community! We’re all familiar with the corrupted leader cliché, but this type of antagonist is different from your typical bad guy. While most Disney villains are pretty much pure, unadulterated evil, the “corrupted leader” villain—and, in my experience, most real-life villains—give off more of a “good guy gone bad” vibe when you try to see things from their point of view.

Throughout the movie, Frollo is internally conflicted, unlike his evil brethren, whose motivations seem to be unwaveringly focused on, well, evil. He is much more like the “bad guys” that we encounter in the real world. When Frollo sings his soliloquy, “Hellfire,” we gain some insight as to what’s going on in his head. He acknowledges his struggle with his lust for Esmeralda as well as his dependence on God for deliverance—ideas that most of us can relate to, or at least understand. We see that Frollo does not want evil things for the sake of evil. In fact, he generally wants admirable things—to follow God, to resist temptation, and to make Paris into a holy city—but the problem, and what transforms him from misguided leader to bad guy is, in Christian author C.S. Lewis’ terms, “…pursuing [these otherwise good things] by the wrong method, or in the wrong way, or too much.”[1]

The key here is to understand that even though Frollo clearly seems to us to be in the wrong, he does not understand himself that way at all. Where we might see evil, he sees in himself a man trying to do his best in a world that scorns God’s law. A world where he does not experience love because others don’t understand him. A world in which he, too, is an outcast. See, outcasts are not only victims of circumstance or those who are unfairly judged for situations out of their control. They include those who contribute to their own outcasting, intentionally or not. They can be people who hold unpopular opinions, those who don’t have social skills, or those who are so convinced that their view is the only legitimate one that it’s impossible to hold a civil conversation with them.

Ironically, sometimes those who do the most outcasting of others can be outcasts themselves. The Pharisees of Jesus’ day fall into this category. Fundamentalist sects from many religious traditions of today also fit this description. It can feel impossible to pray for these people, let alone love them. Surely Jesus doesn’t mean for us to accept them. They bring it on themselves. They’re so clearly wrong, they don’t deserve our attention. They harm others, so it can’t really be so bad for us to ignore them. They’re jerks. Right? It is in this company of outcasts that Judge Frollo dwells.

Oh, but irony is a cruel mistress. Because I would imagine that this type of thinking is exactly what makes men and women like Frollo who they are. So now the tough question: how often do we neglect those in this second category of outcasts? In our Gospel reading for today, Jesus instructs us not to judge, so that we also might not be judged. Full stop. At no point does he add, “…except for the really unlikeable people.” Christ doesn’t work in caveats.

Furthermore, Jesus anticipates our reaction. He reminds us that we are predisposed to a particular kind of blindness regarding those we perceive as wrong. Even as we seek to “fix” these people by removing the speck from their eyes (notice, I did not say “help” or “understand,” because rarely is our motivation to honestly help this type of outcast) we are completely oblivious to the log in our own eye. We are constantly looking at others through log-tinted lenses, so to speak. So again I ask, how ironic is it that we judge Frollo for judging Esmeralda and Quasimodo?

So we are left with a charge to care even for this special category of outcasts without judgment. But I must caution you that this is not something that we can resolve to do once and consider ourselves to be in scriptural compliance. I am reminded of this fact every time I log into Facebook. I like to consider myself a level-headed person who is always open to new ideas, but the truth is that I, like many others, tend to surround myself with people who think just like me. When I encounter someone whose views are different from mine, whether in politics, religion, or anything else—which, let’s face it, happens every several seconds on the internet—my first instinct is to gape at how “backwards” they are and to mentally condemn their perspective in harsh language. Worst of all, without even flinching, I put on my log-lenses. I refuse to acknowledge that maybe, just maybe, I’m missing something bigger about myself in my eagerness to point out how outrageous their ideas are.

The funny thing is, though, the few times that I stop and make the effort to recognize the log in my own eye, the urgency of getting that darn speck out of my neighbor’s eye becomes far less significant, and my entire approach becomes more compassionate, almost by accident. What if Phoebus had tried to discover why Frollo found the gypsies so appalling, instead of reacting in the brash manner that we expect from our “heroes”? Perhaps he might have been able to finally understand Frollo’s motivations, as twisted as they were, and maybe Frollo, finally having an invitation to fully consider and articulate his actions, would have seen things in a different light…or maybe not. But by charging into the fray without removing the lumber from their respective eyes, without seeking the full picture, they never even had that chance. As it is, with the black and white “hero/villain” paradigm and the log-tinted lenses glued firmly in place, everyone suffered violence, heightened conflict, and undue emotional turmoil. Great for a movie plot; painful in real life.

As much as we hate to admit it, only God can see the whole picture. We are limited, biased creatures, and we willfully handicap ourselves by ignoring some things and choosing not to consider others. So I challenge you to try removing the log from your eye in your everyday interactions with others. Who is the “outcast” that you discount for being a “bad guy”? Who is the “other” that you vilify? Is he a religious extremist? Is she a pacifist? A Democrat? A Republican? Pro-life? Pro-choice? A feminist? A member of the 1%? A Capitalist? A Socialist? I could go on and on. In our world of sin and selfishness, everyone is a bad guy to someone. But Jesus reminds us that it doesn’t have to be that way, that God doesn’t want that for us.

So this week, I encourage you to take a personal inventory. Find out who is the Claude Frollo in your life. Hold yourself accountable. Know that it is okay to discover that you have neglected these outcasts. What is not okay is refusing to remove your log-tinted lens once you recognize them for what they are. Trade them in for Christ-tinted lenses. I promise that it will make the world a much brighter place. 

Amen.

[1] Mere Christianity, p. 44.

Christmas Message: "Imagine" (December 24, 2014, Family Service)

[This Message requires a crèche, a large star, 3 large pieces of cloth, incense, a lighter, two flashlights, a manger with hay, a baby doll, a shepherd's crook, a microphone for Gabriel, 3 crowns, sand, "gold", small gifts for the children to bring to the manger, and at least one assistant . Can be modified as needed.]

Can I have the kids come forward? I’d like to have all the kids seated up front on the steps and around me for this.

[Once kids have settled down] Okay, so you guys all know why tonight is a special night, right? It’s Christmas Eve, the night before we celebrate the birth of Jesus. One way we can celebrate something that happened a long time ago is by telling the story. We do that a lot in church. So tonight, I’m going to need your help telling this important story for everyone here, okay? I’m going to need some volunteers to help represent characters of the story, helpers to bring the figures to the crèche, but most importantly, I need the help of your imaginations. Can you do that for me?

Mary and Joseph

This story begins with a man and a woman: Mary and Joseph. [Choose two kids to stand on either side of me; Joseph has headdress and plain shawl, Mary has a large shawl that goes over her head.] They were engaged to each other, but before they could get married, something amazing happened. An angel appeared to Mary and said:

[Spotlight/flashlight on Mary, Voice of Gabriel says:] “Greetings, favored one! The Lord is with you. Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God. The Holy Spirit will come upon you so that you conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you will name him Jesus. He will be great, and will be called the Son of the Most High.” [Try to have Gabriel hidden so that the kids can’t tell where the voice is coming from.]

[Pause] Imagine. How surprised Mary must have been to see a real live angel, a messenger of God, speaking right to her! [Brief pause] How doubtful she must have felt, when the angel told her that she was going to have a baby not because of her husband, but because of the Holy Spirit! How silly that must have sounded to her!

[Pause] And imagine [spotlight moves to Joseph]. How Joseph must have felt when he heard this incredible news. [Brief pause]. The hurt he must have felt when he thought that his future wife had betrayed him, having a baby without him when they were supposed to get married. The love that he must have felt for Mary that made him want to protect her from shame. The confusion and doubt when that same angel came to him in a dream and told him to take Mary as his wife anyway, because the child that she was carrying was God’s.

[Pause] And imagine. [Second spotlight on Mary] The bravery that this man and this woman must have had to obey the angel, and to trust completely in God.

[Hymn; thank Mary and Joseph and have them be seated. Ask two other kids to bring the Mary and Joseph figures to the crèche. Pull manger with “hay” front and center.]

Birth

As the baby inside Mary grew bigger and bigger, the day came that the Emperor ordered everyone to go back to their hometown so that the government could count all of its citizens. What an enormous job! Joseph was living with Mary in Nazareth, so he had to travel all the way back to his hometown to be registered. Does anyone know what his hometown was called? Bethlehem.

Now, Bethlehem was about 80 miles from Nazareth. That distance might be kind of hard for us to imagine. Has anyone here ever been to Niagara Falls, or Buffalo, or Syracuse? It takes about an hour and a half, maybe a little bit more, to drive there. That’s about 80 miles. And if you drove 80 miles south, you’d be halfway to Pennsylvania! It would have taken Mary and Joseph at least four days, probably closer to a week because Jesus was so close to being born.

Now imagine. Having to travel that distance without trains or planes or cars. Having just a donkey and your own two feet to get you there. And imagine making that trip in sandals with a baby on the way. Imagine. How. Tired. Their. Feet. Must have been.

[Pause] Imagine. Arriving in Bethlehem after a long week of travel. There is no Holiday Inn waiting to greet you. No warm mattress for the pregnant Mary to lie down in. Houses in this time weren’t like our houses today: imagine one big room that your whole family would live in together. This house isn’t made out of wood, but out of mud and rocks and straw. And all the people inside don’t have their own personal space; there are probably times that they are crowded as close together as you are now! How does that feel?

These houses were so simple that the family probably brought their animals inside with them for the night—there was nowhere else to keep them safe! Jesus wasn’t born in a hospital like you probably were. He was born in one of these small, crowded mud houses. The best place to put the tiny baby was in the feeding tray that was inside with the animals for the night. [Place baby doll in manger] Jesus was born into chaos, surrounded by animals, far from the royalty that many Jewish people expected for their Messiah. As we place the baby Jesus into the crèche, come up and feel what the bed of the newborn king felt like.

[Hymn; child brings Jesus to crèche, other children come up to touch the hay]

Shepherds

[Pick up Shepherd’s crook, give to one child] This story doesn’t end there, does it? God wasn’t finished yet.

Imagine [Some lights off]. You are a shepherd in the middle of an enormous field. Not a soccer field or a football field, but a wiiiiiiide open field full of sheep, and it’s your job to take care of them, even in the middle of the night. [More lights off] The only light that you can see is the dim light of the stars and the moon. [More lights off] No streetlights, no flashlights—nothing. [All lights off] Nothing but silence, with a quiet baa every once in a while. [To individual children] Can you make one quiet baa? Can you do one even quieter? Very good!

So imagine. You’re in the field, watching your sheep, maybe drifting off to sleep. Imagine how tired you must be! [Pantomime yawning] All of a sudden, a bright light comes out of nowhere [Christmas tree lights on] No campfire or oil lamp you’ve ever seen could shine that bright! How might you feel? Scared?

But it was an angel that was shining brighter than the sun in the middle of the night! Just like with Mary and Joseph, the angel told the shepherds not to be afraid. He said:

[Angel on wireless mike] “I am bringing you good news of great joy for all the people: to you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign for you: you will find a child wrapped in bands of cloth and lying in a manger.”

[All lights back on] Wow. Imagine, after seeing such a miraculous light and hearing these incredible words from the mouth of an angel, what the shepherds would do next. [Pause] What would you do? Would you trust the angel? Would you keep it all a secret? Well, the shepherds immediately went to see this thing that the angels described, and when they saw that it was all true, they told everyone that they met how amazing God is! So the very first people to know about Jesus weren’t kings or rich merchants; instead, God chose to share the good news with shepherds. Imagine!

[Hymn, choose child to bring shepherd to crèche, bring out crown, sand, incense]

Magi
[Give crowns to kids] The shepherds were not the only people to learn about Jesus’ birth. Imagine. You are a very important person, perhaps a king or a queen, perhaps a scientist who studies the stars. You live far away in the East. You have noticed a brand new star in the sky, and you want to figure out what it means. Imagine that in your studies, you find a Jewish prophecy—a prediction from the past—that says a ruler would be born in Bethlehem to lead the Jewish people, and that a star would show where he was.

So imagine that you decide to travel through the desert and wilderness for miles and miles in search of this ruler [pick up and drop sand]. The only thing guiding you…is that new star [point; light on star at back of sanctuary].

After weeks of following the star, you finally find this special baby, this king of the Jewish people. Imagine how excited you feel! To honor him, you have brought gifts. Do you know what they were? Gold, Frankincense, and Myrrh. These might not be the types of gifts that people today would bring a baby, but each one of these gifts was chosen for a special reason. Each one says something very important about Jesus.

The precious gold [lift up gold] represents his royalty: Jesus has been born King of the Jews! Frankincense [light incense] is a very special perfume that is used in religious ceremonies. This represents Jesus’ role as a priest, kind of like me or Father Craig, who helps the people be closer to God. Myrrh [light incense] is also an important perfume, but it is used for a very different reason: in Jesus’ time, myrrh was used when people died. The gift of myrrh represents how one day, this baby would grow into a man who would die to save all of humankind.

But for now, Jesus is a baby. And you, the magi, are overjoyed to have found him, and you bow before him to show respect and honor. Let’s all make a small bow right now [bow]. Imagine the sight of royalty, bowing down before a newborn baby! All things are possible with God!

[Hymn; child brings magi to crèche, incense out]

Our Gifts

Just as the magi brought gifts to Jesus to honor him and show their love, it is right for us to bring gifts to Jesus to celebrate his birth. Sometimes, it might feel like we have nothing to offer Jesus—certainly nothing as fancy as gold, frankincense, or myrrh! But the important thing is not what gifts we bring, but why we bring them. Tonight, we offer our gifts to Jesus as a celebration of God’s amazing love for us and an expression of our adoration of Christ.

After you bring your gift to Jesus, you may return to your seats with your family.

[Hymn; hand out small trinkets to children to bring to the crèche, children return to seats]

Sermon: Holy Monday, March 30, 2015 (John 12:1-11)

Let us pray...

Do you ever feel like the Revised Common Lectionary gives us the most difficult texts to wrestle with over Holy Week? I’ve found that my faith is never challenged quite as much as it is during Lent, and especially during Holy Week. I suppose if you passively let the scripture wash over you without making an effort to actively engage it, you could downgrade this classification from “difficult” texts to merely “confusing,” but I think that approaching Scripture in this way, especially during Holy Week, is doing ourselves and our faith a great disservice. I think we’re supposed to struggle with it.

I mean, it makes sense. This week, every year, we descend into the deepest parts of the mystery of our faith. Any Buddhist or Muslim or Atheist can agree with the social principles that Jesus teaches over the course of his ministry; it’s only when we embrace the mystery of faith that we particularly celebrate during Holy Week and Easter—that Christ has died, that Christ is risen, and that Christ will come again—that our beliefs set us apart.

So that’s why it’s so important for us to engage with Scripture this week, even when it’s hard, even when it makes us uncomfortable. I’ll be the first to own up: today’s reading, this passage from John’s gospel, has always been one of the most difficult ones for me to wrestle with. To me—and, I would venture to guess, to some of you—this passage seems to portray Jesus as an egotistical, self-centered leader who values his own honor above the importance of caring for the poor. This isn’t the Jesus that I have come to know and love from elsewhere in the gospels, and certainly not an attitude that I would ascribe to God. It’s tempting to chalk this up to poor Biblical editing or our own theological deficiency or something getting lost in translation and move past it, but that makes it far too easy for us to dismiss this scripture after nothing more than a cursory reading when we should be challenging ourselves to hear what the Holy Spirit is telling us. Maybe, like me, you’ll find upon further inspection that your discomfort with how this passage portrays Jesus pales in comparison to what it tells us about ourselves.

I always assumed that this passage was about Jesus and Jesus only. After all, Holy Week is about Jesus, Easter is about Jesus, Christianity itself is about Jesus. And to a certain extent, it is. That’s the comfortable, easy reading, because who Jesus is doesn’t change no matter how we interpret the passage; he’ll always make the right choice and point to the right path and it’s just a question of us understanding that. But if that’s the only lens through which we ever read scripture, then we’re going to miss a whole lot. What if this passage is also about us? What if it’s confronting us with our own choices and priorities in the face of the crucifixion, and we don’t like what we see?

It’s a bit easier to understand the passage this way if we read it in context, as is the case with most readings. At the end of chapter 11, immediately before this dinner at Lazarus’ home, the high priests have decided to put Jesus to death, essentially because his teachings and miracles threatened to upend the status quo. What’s more, John 11:57, the verse immediately preceding today’s reading, tells us, “…the chief priests and the Pharisees had given orders that anyone who knew where Jesus was should let them know, so that they might arrest him.” It was common knowledge that these men were after Jesus, to the point that Jesus no longer walked out in the open, but spent his last days out of the public eye.

So now when we read chapter 12, it’s with the understanding that Jesus’ friends knew that the authorities were after him, even if they didn’t really understand the full implications of this fact. In this context, we’re observing the reactions of Jesus’ followers to a profound shift in the story. They’re forced into an unexpected, perhaps even unperceived, transition and we’re watching their responses.

Of course, each of the disciples, as well as Martha and Lazarus, must have had their own emotions and related responses to the unfolding drama, but in this passage our attention is directed at Mary and Judas in particular. As is the case with many stories where Jesus’ followers have opposing reactions, we often find ourselves relating to one approach or the other. The human tendency here is to relate to Mary, the one who obviously got it and did the right thing, or, at the very least, to recognize a desire within ourselves to be like Mary while rejecting Judas as a cautionary tale of what NOT to do.

But this is the point at which I want Scripture to challenge us. I want each and every one of us to feel uncomfortable: we are not Mary. We are Judas.

Certainly, we should all WANT to be Mary, but I want us to operate under the assumption that none of us—not you, or me, or Mother Theresa, or the Pope—instinctually respond to the impending crucifixion as a Mary.

I don’t say this because I believe we all have evil intentions (John makes it clear that Judas is a thief, and I’m not trying to imply that all humans necessarily like him in that particular respect). What I’m saying is that, like Judas, we’re consistently missing the urgency of the situation, the fact that we’re living in the midst of change right now. We tend to live our lives with the motto of “business as usual” when the very nature of our faith tells us that we’re transformed through Christ and are called to transform the world—a perpetual transition.

We are Judas.

I doubt very much that any of you have spent Lent looking for ways to embezzle money from the church like Judas did. But have we spent the past forty days responding to the immediate needs around us, preparing ourselves, our building, our parish family, for the charge that God has given us, or have we been brushing this responsibility aside, preferring instead to look past what needs to be done here and now in favor of some grandiose vision of fixing the world?

We are Judas.

Have we spent too much of our energy on external efforts at the expense of the needs right in front of our eyes, forgetting that we can’t build God’s kingdom outside of our doors without first nourishing it from within? Have we neglected our own personal spiritual growth because we value the “big picture” more?

We are Judas.

In this passage, Jesus isn’t telling Judas that the poor are unimportant. He’s saying that there will never come a point that we will be able to eliminate poverty and finally address those “less important” things, like preparing for the next step. These tasks mustn’t be brushed aside like Scripture that’s too difficult to understand, they mustn’t be put off until later. Change is always coming. That’s the nature of being Christian, of joyfully celebrating Christ’s dying and rising as we continually await the day of his coming.

You are Judas. I am Judas. We inadvertently ignore Jesus as he prepares for his death, completely missing the fact that we’re standing at a crossroads, and that there are things that need to be done on our own front steps to prepare.

Easter comes every year, and we assume there will always be a tomorrow to address these responsibilities that nag at us. But what about when there isn’t tomorrow? When our kids grow into adults with no interest in God? When our property crumbles? When our leadership burns out? When Jesus is on the cross, and there are no more chances to anoint him as he deserves?

If we look carefully, we can see that this standard of taking care of the “little things” and getting our own house in order isn’t one that Jesus expects only of his followers. True, Jesus does spend a huge proportion of his ministry with the poor, the outsiders, the “other”. Jesus feeds, heals, and loves the marginalized every day of his life. But his final hours are not spent out dispersing alms among the needy; they’re spent among his friends, the ones who have been there from the very beginning. And not just socializing and enjoying their company—but serving them. On Thursday, we’ll remember Christ the servant by washing one another’s feet just as Jesus did for his disciples and friends. Mary, as we read here, gets the importance of this act. Judas doesn’t.

I’ve suggested a few ways that we might be like Judas, but this wasn’t intended to be a condemnation or a definitive judgment; I’m not trying to point fingers. In fact, St. Thomas’ is well on its way to taking care of some of the responsibilities that we’ve put off in the past, most notably in the successful Capital Campaign this past fall. I have no way of knowing exactly what it is that you personally have put off, how you have reacted like Judas, just as you have no way of knowing what I’ve neglected (and make no mistake, I’m just as guilty as anyone else). My intention is to knock us all off-balance, to shake up our default perception that we’re on the right track and just need to keep doing what we’re doing. We need to acknowledge and own our sins so that we can begin Holy Week with an attitude of humility and repentance—the only attitude that will truly keep us on the right track. I challenge you to think about how you’re preparing, both for the death and resurrection of Christ as well as the transformation that we face every day, whether we expect it or not.

Today, we begin our journey to the cross. We remember, once again, the transitional life that we have been called to as Christians. We remember our own sin that has brought us here. And we pray that God will give us the wisdom and strength to prepare our community, our families, and ourselves for whatever comes next.

Amen.

Sermon: "Proof of Life", John 20:19-29 (April 12, 2015)

(Listen to this sermon here)

Let us pray…

I’d like us, for a moment, to consider a scenario. Imagine that someone you trust—a friend, a family member, a mentor, whoever—is a scientist. A brilliant scientist, in fact. Imagine that this brilliant scientist friend of yours has been working for three years to find a cure for cancer. So many people are touched by cancer in some way—including, I’m sure, some of you—that this would change the world. If anyone can find such a thing, it’s this person, but if you’re being honest with yourself, you think it’s too good to ever be true. When this person tells you that she will discover the cure, even though you trust her entirely, you have trouble believing her.

Now, imagine that you’re sitting at home, thinking about your mother or father or sister or brother or friend who is battling cancer, when another friend calls you. He excitedly tells you that the scientist you love has done it; she’s found the cure for cancer!...Now, as wonderful as this sounds to you, you can’t allow yourself to believe it, because you just can’t bear to be disappointed. If it’s true, your life will change; but if it’s not, you’ll be devastated. You might feel many things at that moment: confused…hopeful…angry...excited…incredulous…

What about…doubtful?

Too often, we think of doubt as an evil thing, something that only weak people experience. We forget that doubt is natural, healthy, and sometimes even necessary. Our friend Thomas here in scripture tends to get a bad rap. Many of us jump to label him derisively, using “doubt” as a dirty word. He must not really trust his friends or love Jesus if he can’t believe without seeing. He must be in league with the Pharisees and the Roman Empire! He practically crucified Jesus himself! But let’s not get carried away here. In this passage of John’s gospel, the word that we translate as “doubt” can just as easily be interpreted not as something that is antagonistic to faith, but as a mere absence of faith. Pistis, “faith”, versus apistis, “not-faith”. If we read the passage this way, we realize that “not-faith” must necessarily come before “faith,” or else having faith would not be particularly special—it would be the status quo, business as usual, something everyone has. Thomas wasn’t opposed to faith; he simply needed some hard evidence to help him make that leap.

As descendants of the Age of Enlightenment and disciples of the scientific method, we today rely on doubt (as I’ve just defined it) every day to better understand the world around us. If a person asked for proof before believing that science has found a cure for cancer, we would never question his or her motives or desire for the cure. We would say that in this case, doubt is not only healthy, but necessary for scientific discovery. We often need to be able to touch, feel, hear, and see things for ourselves before we are able to embrace them entirely.

The fact of the matter is, we, as humans, are physical beings. We’re spiritual beings too, to be sure, but our physicality is an important part of our existence. So important, in fact, that God chose to come to earth in order to participate in our physicality alongside us. So is it any wonder that we place so much value on physical proof? That when we can feel the reality of something, we find it much easier to believe than when we must take a blind leap of faith? Sometimes, even when we do have faith, when we do come to believe without seeing, even then we search for something physical to confirm our belief.

Why, then, do we insist on making doubt into such a despised characteristic? I’ll grant you that the Thomas story culminates with Jesus saying, “Blessed are those who have not seen and yet have come to believe.” Faith without proof is clearly an admirable quality, and in many instances, it’s necessary to a solid religious life. But Jesus stops there. He doesn’t go on to say, “Cursed are those who do not believe without seeing.” If he did, the story of Christianity would be a whole lot shorter than it is, and our community would be a whole lot smaller. Jesus doesn’t reject Thomas; he offers his own hands and side to Thomas as a gift of proof. Jesus knows that sometimes we need help believing, and that’s okay. And let’s not forget, Thomas’ friends, the ones that we might be tempted to uphold as paragons of faithfulness, were only able to believe so freely because they had actually already seen and touched the risen Christ, the very thing that Thomas is asking for. Had the roles been reversed, I doubt that the other disciples would have acted much differently than Thomas. And why? Because they were human.

And you guys, God’s not stupid. God knows this. God has a well-documented history of working with some class-A doubters. One of my favorites is the story of Gideon. This guy is so epically skeptical, it makes me cringe. In the book of Judges, we read that Gideon’s not convinced that God will help him to save Israel—even though God personally promised to do so—so Gideon proposes a test. Yep, this guy tests God. He places a fleece on the floor, and says that if he returns in the morning to find the fleece wet and the ground dry, THEN he will believe what God had said. But even after that happens, Gideon’s not satisfied. He says, “Okay, God, don’t get mad, but…I need just a little more convincing. Okay, so I’m gonna do the same thing, but this time, make the fleece dry and the ground wet.” So God gives him the physical proof that Gideon asks for a second time. And yet, does God disown him as “too doubtful” or “unworthy”? No. On the contrary, God makes Gideon a judge, a great leader of Israel, and blesses him with many military victories. All because he moved from “not-faith” to “faith” with the help of a little proof.

But we don’t usually look for wet fleece/dry floor kinds of evidence anymore these days. Nor do very many of Christ’s disciples today have the opportunity to place their own fingers on Jesus’ physical wounds. Very few of us feel like we have the luxury of doubt, since we don’t generally anticipate physical proof of Christ’s bodily resurrection—at least, not any time soon. This was troubling to me as a precocious theologian of 7 or 8: “Why doesn’t God give us miracles anymore, like in the Bible? It would be a whole lot easier to convince people to follow Jesus if we had miracles…”

My mom, who was my first and most influential theological influence, agreed and told me that she didn’t know why we don’t see flashy, magic-like miracles anymore. “But,” she said, “that doesn’t mean that God isn’t still giving us signs each and every day.” How? How are those without faith supposed to see and believe? How are they supposed to move from “not-faith” to “faith”? What kind of evidence, if not wounds in a divine hand, does God give to the Doubting Thomases of today?

My friends, as you might have guessed, we are that evidence. I’m sure you’ve heard it said that we are the body of Christ; Paul is explicit about this in 1 Corinthians. We usually say this in the context of our coming together to do Christ’s work in the world, to take action, to feed Jesus’ sheep as he commanded us to do. But when we do this, are we not also proving God’s sovereignty over our lives to others? Aren’t we testifying to God’s great love? Aren’t we showing God’s salvific power to those around us? To be the hands of Christ is to be the proof, the solid evidence, that God answers prayers, is good, and is Lord of all.

We are the hands of Christ. We are the wounds in Christ’s body. We make visible and tangible the invisible work that God does every day in the hearts, minds, and spirits of those around us. We are the imperfection, the brokenness, that testifies to God’s wholeness. What is it that Paul tells us in 2 Corinthians? That God’s power is made perfect in our weakness. Our doubt, our need for proof—and our willingness to be that proof—can lead to humility, which in turn can lead to greater and fuller relationship with God.

It’s tough to say how God is calling each of us to be the hands of Christ to the Thomases around us at any given time. Every person has a different doubt, a different thing that they need proven to them, and it can be frustrating to try and figure out how to go about being that for them without any guidance. If we need a place to start, however, we can turn to today’s reading from Acts. The early Christians had some really good ideas about how to show God to the world. After all, they had a pretty awesome instructor. Since the passage is short and important, I’ll read it to you once more:

…The whole group of those who believed were of one heart and soul, and no one claimed private ownership of any possessions, but everything they owned was held in common. With great power the apostles gave their testimony to the resurrection of the Lord Jesus, and great grace was upon them all. There was not a needy person among them, for as many as owned lands or houses sold them and brought the proceeds of what was sold. They laid it at the apostles’ feet, and it was distributed to each as any had need (Acts 4:32-35).

I think that, at some point in our lives, each of us feels lost without something to cling to with our senses. Whether it’s touching Christ’s wounds, seeing an unexpectedly wet fleece, hearing the exact words that you needed to hear, witnessing a miracle, feeling the touch of a loved one, or experiencing any sort of tangible sign—we all long for proof that we are on the right path, that our faith isn’t in vain, and that we are not alone. And God not only embraces but uses even the skeptical and doubtful and imperfect among us for God’s glory. Especially the skeptical and doubtful and imperfect. Every time we say, “I’m sorry, God, but that just can’t be,” we are able to see—or be—Christ’s hands, and God proves to us once again that it can. Keep doubting if you must, friends, so that the “not-faith” of all might be overcome by the wounds of the risen Christ.

Amen.